Hi all I am new to this and was not even sure I wanted to post. Here goes I have read alot of the posts on here and they are all so positive. How do you get there I am having a mastectomy tomorrow and am horrified about it. I can not get the feeling of this being a mutilation of my body out of my head. I had even considered just not having it and rolling the dice. Any suggetions on how to get to that place where you are comfortable with this would be great.