From the beginning, my husband, my own family, my extended family, my church family, helped to make my journey bearable and pleasurable.
I would like to tell you about two beautiful and practical ways which helped make my journey something to remember.
My older daughter lives out on the Downs two hours away from us and with a busy farmer husband and six beautiful children, she still found time to put together a 'Joy Box' and surprised me for my birthday a few days before surgery.
It was a large colourful box filled with lots of presents and I could choose one at a time when I felt a bit down. Each present had a message which made me laugh, cry, feel loved or just keep going. My five-year-old grandson wanted me to open his first and I wore his necklace all the time.
Some of the presents were:
- a funny hat for when I lost my hair - the message being 'to keep your head warm and your visitors smiling'
- a bag of marbles - 'If you ever feel like you're losing your marbles, here are some more.'
- a cheerleader's pom-poms - 'Give yourself a cheer when no one is around to cheer you on - you're doing great.'
- a box of tissues - 'For when the tears fall and the nose runs and the pain hurts so much.'
- a can of beans - 'When you want to be "full of beans" open a can.'
- 6 bulbs = 6 flowers = 6 Scott grandchildren who all love YOU.
This is just a sample - there were many more and it lasted many weeks and brought such joy.
Another wonderful thing was my younger sister came twice and gave me a foot massage. It was just the most beautiful gift. She had a special electric foot spa, with oils and loving hands. It was great therapy. My house was filled with flowers and cards, and visits from family and friends assured me I was not on my own.
I hope this may help someone to help someone else.
--Kay
