The hardest part of my treatment was going through it without my husband. He had passed away suddenly whilst we were on a caravanning trip around Australia, two years prior to my diagnosis. That experience changed my outlook on life and when I was diagnosed it just confirmed how I felt about life.
Just prior to my diagnosis I bought a 4WD and ordered a caravan. I had decided that I wanted to continue to explore this great country of ours, as this was something for which my husband and I had a great love.
As my treatment went on I wondered if my decision was the right one. Would I still be able to do this? Was I being realistic in my expectation of being able tow a caravan? What would my life be like after treatment?
I picked up my caravan two days after my third dose of chemotherapy. Once it was in my front yard and I could see it, I knew I had done the right thing. It gave me the determination to get through my treatment and pursue the dream. In between chemotherapy and radiation I completed a towing course which gave me the confidence needed to achieve the dream.
Easter was my first major trip away with the caravan. After completing my treatment this trip was the celebration of how life after treatment can be fulfilling, and the promise of adventure that is awaiting me.
In my job as Nurse Unit Manager I have been able to assist other breast cancer patients by talking with them about my experiences. I was able to continue working throughout my treatment. I achieved this through the great support of my family, friends and work colleagues.
I feel I have been able to give others a positive outlook on how to manage treatment, physically and emotionally. I feel blessed that I am in a position where I can help others by demystifying breast cancer and offer support to them as was given to me.
To maintain a good life balance I have now organised my work hours so that I am able to take my caravan away for short trips and longer trips in a couple of years
Life after treatment is good for me and I hope my story gives others the inspiration to achieve their dreams.
--Heather
