My Mum's Breast Cancer Story
When Mum got diagnosed with breast cancer I knew this would be a difficult time, the most difficult I will ever go through. But I knew we would get through it.
During this time though I got closer and closer to my mum, just by helping her and being with her which helped me understand what she was going through. Because of this, I have formed a special bond and friendship with her that I never thought I could get.
During the radiation, chemo and Herceptin Mum was very lethargic and tired. Mum would get upset a lot and that would affect all of us. During this time there were so many times I just wanted to cuddle up to her and cry, but I knew I had to be strong.
Not only was I helping Mum, but she was helping me, by seeing the positive side of it. Mum made me look at the world differently. She made me see that there were worse things in life than only an apple for lunch. She made me open my eyes to the beauty of the world.
Now the hard times are over and I know that we won!
-- Nicola (13)
My story!
When I was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 44, my first thought was of my 3 children and the effect that this would have on their lives. There was and still is, a sense of guilt attached to the disruption and fear that is caused by all of the surgeries, treatments and the unknown.
Thankfully, being their mother, gave me a tower of strength, as I was determined to be there for them and to still be part of their everyday lives, for example school events, sporting events, graduations etc. as I had always tried to be.
Sadly, I was not able to be as emotionally strong as I wanted to and unfortunately, it is usually the family that is most affected by this. Being open and honest about my feelings helped them understand what I was going through. There were times that I could not cope with their emotion as well, and thankfully, my husband was there for them during those times and I know that this has created a closer relationship between them and him.
To me, this has been a wake up call. My family has once again become my main focus as, before I know it, they will have moved onto their own lives. Whereas life was so hectic and busy, I have now slowed life down a little, am trying become more relaxed, eating and cooking healthier, and I'm looking after myself better, so that as well as being there for them, I can also have fun with them. I love being their mum.
-- Michelle
