‘Surviving cancer'
It's been one year since my story was published in The Beacon magazine. How is survival a year later? How are baby Nicholas, who is now over one year old, and my other equally adorable grandchildren? All a year older, with two new babies on the scene, and I cherish every minute I share with them.
Has it been one of those life changing experiences that people talk about? Yes, it undoubtedly has. And yes, I have also found the experience strangely energising.
Before my diagnosis, I was back enjoying full-time work again (after retiring four years previously). The stimulation of working once more with inspirational and wonderful young people completing their final two years of schooling was always a more enjoyable option than any other.
And then, down came all the cards. My surgeon very wisely advised me not to keep this breast cancer a secret. ‘Too well known in the community' were his words. Be up front, be honest and people will be there to help you. Wise man. Family, friends, acquaintances and even ex-students were there in abundance. A quiet hug, a cheerful ‘How are you REALLY? You look great. Miss your cheerful smile at work. At the Zonta Club of Bendigo, ‘When are you coming back?'
I chose not to do more than an odd day of work last year. My body was tired and I needed to listen to those signals. When I did return for that occasional day it was stimulating, but I was never tempted to return on any other basis. Had I been younger there would have been no option. I am aware that not all women had my choice.
But for Rob and me it was a renewal of our enjoyment to be together and to do some travelling. And we did! Off to China for three fascinating weeks. We visited family more frequently. We shared weekends with great friends. And finally we are planning our trip to England this year where we will house and car swap with a friend in Lancaster, Beatrix Potter country!
Medically I was treated with such care. My experiences were all positive and supportive. My questions were always answered and concerns listened to. Would that have been the case some years ago? Probably not. BCNA has brought breast cancer out of the cupboard and I am one of the lucky recipients of that awareness.
I now help others who make contact with me. I am part of this network of strong women. None of us choose to be part of it, but we are here for ‘a good time and a long time', I firmly say to all. I have completed a three day training course on Science and Advocacy with BCNA. I am now a Consumer Representative. This is what I now give back to my community which was so supportive to me. We are survivors and we have lots to share.
Last updated August 2007
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